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Men in My Situation
Men in My Situation
Jul 8, 2025 4:30 PM

Author:Per Petterson,Ingvild Burkey

Men in My Situation

A tender portrait of grief, fatherhood and a life going to pieces from the bestselling author.

'Vivid and moving... It would be hard to find a better writer than Petterson' Irish Times

In 1992 Arvid Jansen is thirty-eight, divorced and paralysed by grief. More than a year has passed since the tragic accident that took his parents and two of his brothers.

Existence has become a question of holding on to a few firm things. Loud, smoky bars, whisky, records, company for the night and taxis home. Or driving his Mazda into the stunning, solitary landscape outside of Oslo, sleeping in the car when his bed is an impossible place to be.

Adrift and inept, Arvid feels his life unravelling. Is there any redemption for a man in his situation?

'Per Petterson writes about masculinity as well as anyone' Torrey Peters

'A rare insight into male vulnerability' Evening Standard

Reviews

Petterson's spare and deliberate prose has astonishing force

—— The New Yorker

Petterson is a profoundly gifted novelist

—— Richard Ford

Is there a living writer better at conveying the disconcerting relationship between time and memory?... There is pleasure, too, in watching Petterson shift through the gears from pleasure to unease in one of those gloriously sinuous sentences that have become something of a trademark

—— Adrian Turpin , Financial Times

Petterson is remarkably gifted

—— James Wood

Reading a Petterson novel is like falling into a northern landscape painting-all shafts of light and clear palpable chill

—— Time

Subtly incisive . . . Clean sentence after clean sentence, Petterson conveys both the melancholy and the demi-pleasurable sensation of being fundamentally untethered.

—— Stacey D'Erasmo , The New York Times Book Review

Readers will find that they're in the hands of a master whose quiet, unforgettable voice leaves you yearning to hear more.

—— The Boston Globe

Per Petterson stands unsurpassed among contemporary writers for existential truth-telling.

—— Financial Times

A rare insight into male vulnerability

—— Jessie Thompson , Evening Standard

The first great story founded upon the normal events of a normal woman's existence. It is as great and as rich, as simple and as profound, as such a story should be

—— Des Moines Register

No other novelist, past or present, has bodied forth the medieval world with such richness and fullness of indisputable genius. . . . One of the finest minds in European literature

—— New York Herald Tribune

A master . . . writing in a prose as vigorous, articulate and naturalistic as the novel it re-creates, Tiina Nunnally brilliantly captures a world both remote and strangely familiar

—— Judges’ citation, PEN/Book-of-the-Month Club Translation Prize

Frank, funny and unputdownable, Isabel Kaplan's NSFW takes you on an ambitious young woman's wild ride through Hollywood. Her mother's a famous feminist lawyer, and she's a rising executive star, mistress of her destiny. But behind the glitter and the justice, everyone is tarnished and compromised - including even our narrator. Kaplan, with her sharp and nuanced eye, sees it all, and tells it brilliantly.

—— Claire Messud , -

A frank account of the inherent filthiness of leaning in. A study of the psychological, and at times literal, gymnastics that are required of striving women.

—— Raven Leilaini , -

I read this steely investigation of workplace ambition and patriarchal complicity in one sitting, my alliances shifting with every page. Funny, insightful, and enraging in all the best ways, NSFW is a fiercely smart debut that turns its gaze back on the reader, forcing you to ask just how far you'd go - and who you'd throw under the bus - for a seat at the table.

—— Julie Buntin , -

A stunning portrayal of intergenerational family love and the complications of the human condition. I was swept up in the world of the Aylward women: in their power and pain and mostly, in their fierce resilience. A novel full of compassion and honesty, where love triumphs. The prose is pitch perfect.

—— ELAINE FEENEY

Hymn to the warp and woof of life; celebration of the flip-flop way of family; soaring testimony to the endurance of the human spirit. And all delivered with his trademark compassion, empathy, humour and brio. A gift of a book.

—— ALAN McMONAGLE

A compelling read

—— SAINSBURY'S MAGAZINE

Big-hearted, generous and brimful of emotion, this is a gorgeous, life-enhancing novel.

—— Mail on Sunday

Ryan's writing is like poetry and he has a real gift for creating characters who live in full technicolour. Highly recommend

—— Good Housekeeping

In Ryan's hands the mundane and the everyday is transformed into a thing of beauty, thrumming with significance.

—— REFINERY 29

Tender with comic observation ... a topsy-turvy emotional rollercoaster

—— DAILY MAIL

Magical

—— OBSERVER

Exquisitely rendered. It reads like musical sounds, full of light and lilting melody...it's funny and sad, and sparks with the most tremendous, tart, wit.

—— INews

The characters are compelling and vividly drawn, the dialogue is profane and frequently hilarious; the prose drips like honey off a spoon.

—— SUNDAY TIMES

A jewel of a novel that will surely become a classic... enthralling and unmissable

—— DAILY EXPRESS, 'Fiction Highlights of 2022'

A celebration of love and loyalty among women.

—— IRISH INDEPENDENT

Big-hearted, generous and brimful of emotion, this a gorgeous, life-enhancing read

—— IRISH MAIL ON SUNDAY

It is a beaut. It's a celebration of women and of womanhood. I see my mother in this, I see my sister ... This book is a joy.

—— RYAN TUBRIDY

If language - lyric, lovely and funny, steeped in County Tipperary - and women (men come and go, rarely center a chapter and are often useless, sometimes cruel) are of no interest to you, The Queen of Dirt Island is not your next read. Ryan's book is a celebration, in an embroidered, unrestrained, joyful, aphoristic and sometimes profane style, of both ... The Queen of Dirt Island gives the women their due, and the reader is rewarded.

—— NEW YORK TIMES

Donal Ryan's The Queen of Dirt Island is a little Irish miracle ... there's as much implicit wisdom in these pages about how to live as how to write ... Ryan has his own emotional range and a way of capturing the largeness of what look like tiny lives but aren't

—— WASHINGTON POST

Ambitious, unsettling and funny, this book is full of desire and mischief with surprising results.

—— Platinum, *Summer Reads of 2022*
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