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The Way We Are
Jan 15, 2026 6:35 PM

Author:Sinéad Moriarty

The Way We Are

A SPECIAL SHORT STORY FROM THE WINNER OF THE IRISH BOOK AWARD FOR POPULAR FICTION 2015 - A STANDALONE PREQUEL TO THE NO 1 BESTSELLING THE WAY WE WERE

It's Valentine's Day and Alice's house is a sea of elaborate cards and billowing heart-shaped balloons. These gifts are not from her husband, Ben, but from a gaggle of boys madly in love with their fifteen-year-old daughter.

After nearly two decades together, Alice and Ben barely have time for romance. Their roles are clear: Alice is a busy GP who also keeps their home and girls on track. Ben has the more exciting if demanding career as a surgeon.

Much as she knows Ben loves his family, Alice feels he is restless and preoccupied. But what is causing him to neglect her and their daughters?

Then, at a Valentine's dinner with friends, a dramatic revelation causes Alice to see Ben in a new light - and to wonder if they still have a future together. Because it is clear - their family cannot stay the way they are.

Praise for The Way We Were:

'Heartfelt and deeply moving ... I couldn't put it down.' Susan Lewis

'Intriguing and thought provoking ... a great read.' Katie Fforde

'Gripping and thought-provoking - I was desperate to discover how it would pan out!' Paige Toon

Reviews

In this darkly funny work, Parks offers a story that doesn’t shy away from the complexity of relationships, and from the ineffability, indeed, impossibility, of the unmade decision.

—— Ayesha Manazir Siddiqi , Independent

Mordantly amusing, deeply sad novel… Plainly written, vivid portrait of a marriage… A cautionary tale for couples heedless of the care and kindness a good relationship requires, and a horror story for those who discover they are simply but irreparably mismatched.

—— Rosemary Goring , The Herald

A blackly comic study of a 30-year-old marriage.

—— Arminta Wallace , Irish Times

As effective an antidote to Valentine’s Day as you could find.

—— Stephanie Cross , Daily Mail

Restless, lightly mordant tale of lust and love lost.

—— Jeffrey Burke , Mail on Sunday

A subtle and painfully well-observed black comedy that will make some readers flinch with recognition.

—— Phil Baker , The Sunday Times

This forensic account of marital breakdown is breathtakingly honest… There are moments in Thomas and Mary…that will make anyone in a long-term relationship wince.

—— Alice O’Keeffe , Guardian

Parks’s observations of family life are warm and funny.

—— Anthony Cummins , Prospect

A serious and penetrating study, always drilling down to the fundamentals, of family, love and middle-aged ennui.

—— Paul Genders , The Times Literary Supplement

Witty and pleasantly asymmetric.

—— UK Press Syndication

It’s a poignant portrait, like stained glass; a rich picture made up of all the small stories that make up a marriage, that make up a life.

—— Natasha Tripney , Observer

Tim Parks is a writer with acute perception of human nature.

—— Shelia Grant , Nudge

Tim Parks, always sharp on domestic details… is good on the subtleties of office politics. And good on stormy passion, too.

—— William Leith , Evening Standard

Peyton Marshall is a writer of intelligence and keen observation with a great future. GOODHOUSE is a startling debut. In James, she has created a compelling and convincing hero for the all-too-probable dark times ahead

—— A L KENNEDY

An eerie, compelling novel, its deceptively simple language is a 'slight rush of words' which hold much more than they seem capable of containing...This novel is about the need to create a story we can live with when the real story cannot be told...

—— Financial Times

Strout uses a different voice herself in this novel: a spare simple one, elegiac in tone that sometimes brings to mind Joan Didion's

—— The Tablet

This is a glorious novel, deft, tender and true. Read it

—— Sunday Telegraph

An exquisitely written story...a brutally honest, absorbing and emotive read

—— Catholic Universe

Honest, intimate and ultimately unforgettable

—— Stylist

Sympathetic, subtle and sometimes shocking

—— Emma Healey

Plain and beautiful...Strout writes with an extraordinary tenderness and restraint

—— Kate Summerscale

One of this year's best novels: an intense, beautiful book about a mother and a daughter, and the difficulty and ambivalence of family life

—— Marcel Theroux

Elizabeth Strout's prose is like words doing jazz

—— Rachel Joyce

Elizabeth Strout's Olive Kitteridge is the best novel I've read for some time

—— David Nicholls

An exquisite novel of careful words and vibrating silences

—— New York Times Book Review 100 Notable Books of 2016

In this quiet, well observed novel, a mother and her mysteriously ill daughter rebuild their relationship in a New York hospital room. Deft and tender, it lingers in the mind

—— Daily Telegraph Books of the Year

A worthy follow-up to Olive Kitteridge

—— David Nicholls , Guardian Books of the Year

I loved My Name is Lucy Barton: she gets better with each book

—— Maggie O'Farrell , Guardian Books of the Year

The standout novel of the year - a visceral account of the relations between mother and daughter and the unreliability of memory

—— Linda Grant , Guardian Books of the Year

In a brilliant year for fiction, I've admired the nuanced restraint of Elizabeth Strout's My Name is Lucy Barton

—— Hilary Mantel , Guardian Books of the Year

Elizabeth Strout's My Name is Lucy Barton shouldn't work, but its frail texture was a triumph of tenderness, and sent me back to her excellent Olive Kitteridge

—— Cressida Connolly , The Spectator

A rich account of a relationship between mother and daughter, the frailty of memory and the power of healing

—— Mark Damazer , New Statesman

This physically slight book packs an unexpected emotional punch

—— Simon Heffer , Daily Telegraph

A novel offering more hope

—— Daisy Goodwin , Daily Mail

My Name Is Lucy Barton intrigues and pierces with its evocative, skin-peeling back remembrances of growing up dirt-poor.

—— Ann Treneman , The Times

Masterly

—— Anna Murphy
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