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May 8, 2024 4:12 PM

Author:Sarbjit Kaur Athwal

Shamed

In 1998, Sarbjit Athwal was called by her husband to attend a family meeting. It looked like just another family gathering. An attractive house in west London, a large dining room, two brothers, their mother, one wife. But the subject they were discussing was anything but ordinary. At the head of the group sat the elderly mother. She stared proudly around, smiling at her children, then raised her hand for silence. ‘It’s decided then,’ the old lady announced. ‘We have to get rid of her.’

‘Her’ was Surjit Athwal, Sarbjit’s sister-in-law. Within three weeks of that meeting, Surjit was dead: lured from London to India, drugged, strangled, and her body dumped in the Ravi River, never to be seen again.

After the killing, risking her own life, Sarbjit fought secretly for justice for nine long, scared years. Eventually, with immense bravery, she became the first person within a murderer’s family ever to go into open court in an honour killing trial as the Prosecution’s key witness, and the first to waive her anonymity in such a trial. As a result of her testimony, the trial led to the first successful prosecution of an honour killing without the body ever being found.

But her story doesn’t end there. Since the trial, her life has been threatened; her own husband arrested after an allegation of intimidation. Shamed is a story of fear and of horror – but also of immense courage, and a woman who risked everything to see that justice was done.

Reviews

A horrific story of appalling murder and awesome courage.

—— Daily Mail

I felt moved by this book as the experiences resonate with many of the victims that we deal with every day. It also highlights how honour systems within family and community dynamics can paralyse someone into a place of great fear. It takes a great amount of courage to speak out. Sarbjit has been significant to enabling others to peer into the life of a family that put honour before a life. My hope is that this story will encourage many not to be silent but to come forward and speak out. As a campaigner in this field I give credit to this story that seeks to break the silences of many.

—— Jasvinder Sanghera CBE, Chief Executive of Karma Nirvana and bestselling author of SHAME and DAUGHTERS OF SHAME

As this book and Surjit’s murder illustrates, the burden of carrying the honour of the family falls only on the shoulders of the women. The courage it takes to make your own choices can never be exaggerated. Time is no barrier to justice being delivered, the pain does not lessen with the years. It takes one brave soul to say “this is wrong” and then many lives to put it right. How many other unmarked graves are there of women who said no?

—— Nazir Afzal OBE, Chief Crown Prosecutor, CPS

First-rate

—— Guardian

[A] lively, yet scholarly, book... Kadri is an ideally positioned guide

—— Daily Telegraph

Intellectually nimble and rigorously researched . . . admirably clear-eyed . . . Kadri is a precise and stylish writer, as good at explicating abstruse arguments as he is at conjuring vivid scenes . . . this brave and sane book could not be more timely

—— Scotsman

Truly penetrating and provocative

—— Observer

Learned, level-headed, engaging, Kadri's [book] deserves praise on every front

—— Boyd Tonkin , Independent

Thoughtful

—— Independent on Sunday

[An] erudite and instructive book... Captivating

—— The Times

[A] fascinating journey . . . Kadri approaches his themes with unstinting humanity and intelligence, as well as great fluency

—— Spectator

You will come across...a fresh eye, and a clear perspective, in Sadakat Kadri's new book, Heaven on Earth. Learned, level-headed, engaging, Kadri's "journey through Shari'a law" deserves praise on every front

—— Independent

This is an extremely valuable book...Knowing this stuff is important, and Kadri takes us through it wonderfully well. He has a great grasp of the facts and – this is my favourite thing – a good, dry sense of humour

—— Nick Lezzard , Guardian

Superb… So much discussion of sharia is marred by misinformation and paranoia: this level-headed book provides a timely corrective

—— David Evans , Independent on Sunday

The most gripping, moving and entertaining literary memoir I have ever read.

—— Amanda Craig , Independent on Sunday

The story Rushdie tells is never less than gripping.

—— Colin McCabe , New Statesman

A magnificent new memoir.

—— Matthew d’Ancona , Evening Standard

This moving, sometimes irritating, often beautiful and blissfully funny memoir is also a resounding manifesto, reminding us that novelists have a right and duty to tackle the most controversial subjects.

—— Jake Kerridge , Sunday Express

His big, bold, controversial memoir…matches Rushdie’s confident personality.

—— Ian Finlayson , The Times

[A book that] rattles with the terror of the moment.

—— Graeme Wood , Barnes & Noble Review

The big book of the week was Salman Rushdie's memoir Joseph Anton

—— Guardian

It’s an extraordinary document.

—— Anthony Cummins , Metro

Rushdie says art outlasts persecution, but artists may not. A look at how this dichotomy has played out in his life.

—— Salil Tripathi , Live Mint

Joseph Anton is as riveting for the small vignettes as the big, historical sweep.

—— Ginny Dougary , Financial Times

Reads like a thriller...painfully true.

—— Robert McCrum , Observer

He is compelling here...grippingly reconstructing his long years in hiding.

—— Robert Collins , Sunday Times

[N]ot many Americans had heard of Rushdie until Valentines Day, 1989, when the dying Ayatollah Khomeni of Iran issued the infamous fatwa calling for Rushdie’s head... Rushdie spent most of the next decade in hiding, accompanied by armed British agents. He’s now published his account of that stranger-than-fiction time: Joseph Anton: A Memoir.

—— Kurt Andersen , Studio 360

Aside from the vivid, splendidly told account of his childhood and family background, Rushdie's book charts in, fascinating, grimly humourous detail, the shadowy half-life he lived until that fatwah was lifted on March 27, 2002.

—— Paddy Kehoe , RTE Ten
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