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How I Lose You
How I Lose You
Jan 12, 2026 8:08 PM

Author:Kate McNaughton

How I Lose You

'Wonderful' - Stylist

'Thoroughly addictive. I loved it.' - RUTH HOGAN, author of The Keeper of Lost Things

'Superb' - Louise O'Neill

When Eva and Adam fall into bed one Friday night, tired and happy after drinks with friends, they have their whole lives ahead of them. But their story ends on page twelve.

That's no reason to stop reading though, because How I Lose You is a story told backwards – and it's all the more warm, tender and moving because we know it is going to be interrupted. It’s a story Eva thought she knew – but as you and she will discover, it’s not just the ending of the story that she got wrong.

Reviews

A poignant and uplifting exploration of what makes a relationship, of how it grows and how it makes us the person we are, this is a wonderful read

—— Stylist

Intriguing, poignant and totally absorbing. I had no idea where it was going, but found it thoroughly addictive. A masterful exploration of grief, relationships and the secrets that we keep from those closest to us. I loved it.

—— Ruth Hogan, author of THE KEEPER OF LOST THINGS

McNaughton is a profoundly tender storyteller. A truly moving book about love, humanity and sadness, laced with wit - compelling reading for anyone who needs to find a light in the dark

—— Daisy Buchanan

Pulls you into its thrall from the very first pages. A book I'll press into the hands of my friends, urging them to read it

—— Kerry Hudson

Intensely moving

—— Katie Khan

Superb - so confident and deft and skilfully written

—— Louise O'Neill

Renton, Begbie, Sick Boy and Spud are back in this wildly farcical story of revenge, sentimentality and psychedelic drugs... a whooping last hurrah (possibly) for the Trainspotting gang... very funny.

—— Sam Leith , Guardian

Crackling with energy and verve, it’s all brilliant fun... But the onset of middle age, and a shocking death add poignancy to [Dead Men’s Trousers].

—— Sunday Mirror

Fast and furious, scabrously funny and weirdly moving, this is a spectacular return of the crew from Trainspotting.

—— No.1

It's a challenge not to become completely engrossed

—— Cornish Times

[A] thought-provoking novel about a section of society that's so easily overlooked

—— Yorkshire Post

A sensitive novel ... told through the innocent lens of four-year-old Jesika. It's a challenge to not become completely engrossed and concerned for her family's wellbeing.

—— Belfast Telegraph Morning

Amanda Berriman's heart-wrenching tale of a family on the edge

—— Kerry Hudson , Observer

The crepuscular, dreamlike, post-1945 London that Michael Ondaatje invents in his novel Warlight continues to haunt you long after the plot itself.

—— Blake Morrison

A dark adult fairy tale where nothing is as it seems… Ondaatje’s magical mystery tour makes for an exceptionally entertaining literary journey.

—— Arminta Wallace , Irish Times

Place your bets - with this glorious new book... Ondaatje could be in line for another Booker.

—— Anthony Cummins , Metro

Haunting… [Ondaatje] casts a magical spell, as he takes you into his half-lit world of war and love, death and loss, and the dark waterways of the past.

—— Hermione Lee , New York Review of Books

Warlight is a subtly thrilling story… because of the powerful atmosphere Ondaatje invokes of unease, disquiet and the unknown. It’s a masterful book.

—— Rachel Fellows , Esquire

Ondaatje’s spare and evocative prose perfectly captures the crumbled austerity of post-war London… this is easily his most satisfying and seductive novel in years.

—— Richard Strachan , Herald Scotland

[There is a] fragile, haunting, almost whispered quality [to] Ondaatje’s writing… So finely constructed are his sentences that you find yourself holding your breath lest you inadvertently disturb their symmetry.

—— Mick Brown , Daily Telegraph

Ondaatje’s prose is consistently illuminating… It does not stroke the chin of its own wisdom, but allows meaning and poignancy to accumulate through inference and feint. In simple terms, it is an alluring narrative of character and incident told by a powerful storyteller.

—— Ben Masters , Literary Review

Skilfully navigating espionage, betrayal and deception, Warlight... takes [Ondaatje] deep into John le Carré territory… a lyrical but sinister mosaic of a hidden world.

—— Boyd Tonkin , Economist 1843

Dazzling.

—— Good Housekeeping

Warlight is Ondaatje’s most haunting novel after The English Patient… mesmerising.

—— Nilanjana Roy , Financial Times

A beautifully crafted work of fiction… [with a] stunning denouement.

—— Lucy Popescu , New Humanist

This elegiac novel combines the stealth of an espionage thriller with the irresolute shifts of a memory play, purposefully full of fragments, loss and unfinished stories. Wonderful.

—— Claire Allfree , Daily Mail

Lyrical but oblique, [Ondaatje’s] prose matches a mood of mystery and suspicion that tantalises.

—— Economist

[A] novel of shadowy brilliance.

—— Robert Douglas-Fairhurst , The Times

The English Patient author Michael Ondaatje weaves another tale of love, loss and memory against a backdrop of World War II... The mysteries come together through a complex, non-linear narrative that revisits and revises each development with careful scrutiny.

—— Lucy Brooks , Culture Whisper

Michael Ondaatje’s Warlight stood out this year for its skill in making even the most familiar fictional terrain seem strange and unsettling… every time we think we’ve pinned down what Ondaatje is doing in this novel, he somehow manages to wriggle free. It’s a quite brilliant act of fictional escapology.

—— Robert Douglas-Fairhurst , Spectator **Books of the Year**

It's suspenseful, intense, and Ondaatje's prose is beautiful.

—— Prudence Wade , i

Ondaatje brings to life this work…with meticulous detail

—— Hirsh Sawhney , Times Literary Supplement

Ondaatje is a skillfully deliberate writer

—— Andrew Motion , Guardian

Warlight not only shines a light into the shadowy wars…but also the uncertain age of adolescene

—— Donal O’Donoghue , RTE Guide

This seam of subterfuge and the truth being gradually released from the shadows make Warlight gripping reading… Ondaatje adorns the walls with his characters like a master gallerist

—— Irish Independent

Warlight is a layered, precisely written, erudite meditation on the damage we do when we make war. It’s eerily prescient.

—— Morag MacInnes , Tablet

Hypnotic.

—— Tatler

An exquisite, elegiac account of a life forged in the shadow of other people's secrets, told in language as feathery and delicate as a moth.

—— Anthony Cummins , Daily Mail

I look above all else in fiction for sureness of touch with sentences – and that was abundantly in evidence…in Michael Ondaatje’s Warlight… [Warlight has] the unmistakable stamp of [the author] knowing exactly what [he’s] doing.

—— Sam Leith , Spectator **Books of the Year**

Ostensibly realistic, it is phantasmagoric… Everything he says bristles with improbable life. Reading it is like watching a movie in which, however much activity there is, the atmosphere dominates the plot

—— Allan Massie , Oldie

A meditative and dreamily lyrical espionage thriller

—— Claire Allfree and Anthony Cummins , Metro

Ondaatje brings Warlight’s seemingly disparate fragments together with such skill that the ending feels not just satisfying but inevitable. The most lovely conjuring trick, it leaves you in awe of the magician. I emerged blinking into the glare of the 21st century, bereft in a way a novel hasn’t left me bereft for a longtime

—— Allison Pearson , Sunday Telegraph

Ondaatje’s onion of a novel, his first since 2011’s The Cat’s Table, combines rich intrigue with a meditation on how we rewrite our memories by examining them… a stunning return.

—— Pat Carty , Hot Press

Magnificent.

—— Jenna Rak , Glamour Magazine

Nothing in the world of this novel is ever redundant; nothing is accidental. Whenever you come across a striking detail…you can be sure it will crop up again, be charged with more significance, be joined with the rest of the story in a long chain of meaning.

—— Tessa Hadley , London Review of Books

Mesmerising.

—— Craig Brown , Mail on Sunday, **Books of the Year**

Ondaatje’s first novel in seven years is also one of his best – a quiet but profoundly powerful book… A superior, espionage novel about the unstable, shape-shifting nature of personal history.

—— Claire Allfree , Metro, **Books of the Year**

The evocation of night journeys through the fog-bound city and along mysterious canals and forgotten rivers is spellbinding.

—— Allan Massie , The Catholic Herald, **Books of the Year**

Michael Ondaatje’s Warlight is one of the best books I’ve read in years. I’d pick it up again in a heartbeat.

—— Chris Catchpole , Q

Ondaatje’s prose is beautiful, and he successfully builds suspense and tension without seeming too heavy-handed

—— Ella Walker , Herald Scotland

Michael Ondaatje is at his best when writing about awkward, quiet types

—— A. S. H. Smyth , Spectator

Brilliant dramatic tale

—— Love it!

Ondaatje’s prose is consistently illuminating. Warlight is a meditation on the purpose and possibilities of storytelling

—— Ben Masters , Literary Review

[T]his elegiac novel combines the stealth of an espionage thriller with the irresolute shift of a memory play, purposefully full of fragments, loss and unfinished stories. Wonderful

—— Claire Allfree , Daily Mail

Warlight is a subtly thrilling story… It's a masterful book

—— Rachel Fellows , Esquire UK

- So finely are his sentences constructed that you find yourself holding your breath lest you inadvertently disturb their symmetry

—— Mick Brown , Daily Telegraph

[C]ompulsively and grippingly readable… Ondaatje is a marvelous writer, and Warlight is a novel which will continue to play in the reader’s imagination

—— Allan Massie , The Scotsman

For the lyrical strength of the prose alone, a new Michael Ondaatje novel is always a treat

—— Irish Independent

Warlight is a layered, precisely written, erudite meditation on the damage we do when we make war

—— Morag MacInnes , Tablet

Rachel Kushner's The Mars Room was a hot favourite on this year's Booker shortlist, and it's easy to see why… Kushner's atmospheric writing is compelling to the last.

—— Irish Independent, *The best reads of 2018: Our critics name their top picks*

Kushner’s writing is the most marvellous I read this year… time and again I found myself rereading paragraphs of The Mars Room for her perfectly turned sentences, the music of her prose

—— Neil D. A. Stewart , Civilian, **Books of the Year**
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