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Have The Men Had Enough?
Have The Men Had Enough?
Nov 12, 2025 5:09 PM

Author:Margaret Forster

Have The Men Had Enough?

What do men run away from? Not war, not physical hardship, but the day-to-day emotional demands of impossible domestic situations. That's women's work. This is a story of female courage, where black comedy turns to disturbing pathos revolving around the rights of an indomitable woman

Reviews

A moving story, a condemnation of the way we treat our old friends and loves, a rage against the dying of the light

—— Philip Howard , The Times

A novel painfully full of feeling, and totally credible-the passion shines through

—— Isabel Quigly , Financial Times

A memorably touching story about the pressures on a family trying to do their best... A wonderfully accurate, powerful and even funny portrait

—— Graham Lord , Sunday Express

It is close to life in a way we hardly expect a novel to be, and finally very moving

—— Hilary Mantel , Daily Telegraph

An extremely skilful and angry novel...beautifully written

—— Anita Brookner , Spectator

Subtle and thoughtful.

—— Independent

An intense tale of love, loss and the bond of family that survive, almost miraculously, over time and space... What could have been a fairly conventional story... is transformed by Phillips into something extraordinary

—— Neel Mukherjee , The Times

'A moving meditation on the redemptive power of family and love'

—— Observer

Phillip's writing is distinctive, audacious and powerful

—— Daily Telegraph

Remarkable. It is a strange and joyous book which will yield much to the patient reader

—— Elis Ni Dhuibhne , Irish Times

Lark and Termite, Phillips' fourth novel, has high expectations to live up to. That it meets, and even surpasses, such expectations is only one of its many achievements

—— Angel Gurria-Quintana , Financial Times

'A richly textured novel with a wondrous story at its heart about the many permutations of love'

—— Sunday Herald

compulsive, innovative, challenging

—— Lesley McDowell , Independent on Sunday

A moving meditation on the redemptive power of family and love.

—— Sarah Churchwell , Observer

The voices and structures are remarkable

—— Meaghan Delahunt , The Scotsman

Tender story

—— Angel Gurria-Quintana , Financial Times

With its almost mystical exploration of love in all its forms, this is a tender portrayal of a family that proves unsinkable

—— Elizabeth Buchan , The Sunday Times

Phillips's characters...are alive and intimately rendered; their warmth suffuses the novel like low-burning embers

—— Eimear Nolan , Irish Times

Merivel offers a rich and satisfying sequel to the bright beginning of Restoration

—— Lindsay Duguid , Sunday Times

More interesting than all the period decoration is the character of Merivel, a character whom the author has such deep knowledge of. Tremain’s fusion of an engrossing character and the minutiae of another time is a marvel

—— Lucy Daniel , Daily Telegraph

Tremain's control of her character and her reflective but often dramatic unfolding of events are impressive acts of authorial ventriloquism, in which she gives a nod to the great diarists of that era but carries off her own man's story with wit, grace and originality. There is only to add that, despite the linear storytelling imposed on a journal, she not only effortlessly sustains momentum and mood, but brings the novel to as near a perfect ending as one could wish

—— Rosemary Goring , Herald

Tremain is particularly good at exploring the nuances of life for the hapless Merivel so that reader empathises with his sense of loneliness and despair. As well as exploring the sensitive side of Merivel’s character we share his intimate thoughts which are often very funny. A beautiful book

—— We Love This Book

A delightful portrait of an aging man at the mercy of his own foibles and frustrations

—— Marie Claire

Sequels rarely live up to their predecessors but this one comes close

—— Lianne Kolirin , Daily Express

A glorious book of heart-warming philosophy and heart-rending sadness

—— Sainsbury’s Magazine

An excellent novel...thrilling reading...incredibly entertaining

—— Bookgeeks.co.uk

Surely one of the most versatile novelists writing today

—— Daily Express

Vivid, original and always engaging

—— The Times

Rose Tremain writes comedy that can break your heart

—— Literary Review

Steps inside the mind of Sir Robert Merivel

—— Sunday Business Post

For a second time this is one to cherish

—— Boyd Tonkin , Independent

A Pepysian romp of the first order

—— Independent Radar

Continues in the same superior vein as Restoration… The fusion of such an engrossing character, and the minutiae of another time, remains a marvel

—— Daily Telegraph

In this evocative and beautifully drawn novel of family and loyalty in the face of an uncertain future Tremain continues the story of a wonderfully unique character

—— Hannah Britt , Daily Express

Hugely enjoyable

—— Reader's Digest

Merivel’s hapless charm remains intact in this tour de force of literary technique

—— Sunday Telegraph (Seven)

A sequel that looks back to the earlier novel without ever quite recapturing its spirit is the perfect form in which to evoke that feeling of having to carry on, and of trying to make yourself have fun even with it eventually begins to hurt

—— Colin Burrow , Guardian

A marvelllously rollicking good read, and it is such a pleasure to meet Robert Merivel again. Rose Tremain brings the character to life in a way that makes you want to find out even more about the period. Enormously skilled and deft

—— Good Book Guide
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