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Back When We Were Grown-ups
Dec 3, 2025 1:26 AM

Author:Anne Tyler

Back When We Were Grown-ups

One morning, Rebecca wakes up and realises she has turned into the wrong person.

Is she really this joyous and outgoing organiser of parties, the put-upon heart of her dead husband's extended family? What happened to her quiet and serious nineteen-year-old self, and what would have happened if she'd married her college sweetheart? Can someone ever recover the person they've left behind?

**ANNE TYLER HAS SOLD OVER 8 MILLION BOOKS WORLDWIDE**

'Anne Tyler takes the ordinary, the small, and makes them sing' Rachel Joyce

'She knows all the secrets of the human heart' Monica Ali

'A masterly author' Sebastian Faulks

'I love Anne Tyler. I've read every single book she's written' Jacqueline Wilson

Reviews

Beautifully observed... Effortlessly brilliant

—— Daily Telegraph

One of her very best

—— Mail on Sunday

Superb... Beautifully conceived, masterfully executed... Out of the emotional confusions spawned by dislocated, dysfunctional families, Anne Tyler has produced - yet again - a scintillating comedy of manners

—— Sunday Telegraph

Like all great writers, Tyler creates her own world...she is that rare being: a writer so good that she lets you forget it. If you're one of the few who's yet to discover her, don't waste any more time: this ranks among her best

—— Daily Mail

Tyler, of the fresh, almost conversational prose, sharp dialogue and all too much human truth, really is one of the wisest and most perceptive observers crafting fiction as life

—— Irish Times

One of the funniest books I have read in a long time

—— Independent

An insight bordering on genius

—— Irish Times

My favourite writer, and the best line-and-length novelist in the world

—— Nick Hornby

Another stunning gem: quiet, sharply faceted, and devastating

—— Kirkus

In her atmospheric debut, The Secrets of Hartwood Hall, Katie Lumsden enthralls us with a quintessential manor-home mystery. Fans of gothic literature will savor the peculiar characters, the abandoned corridors, the deceptions and twists behind every door... Ultimately a story about women and the haunting secrets they keep, Lumsden's debut reminds us never to trust first appearances. A mesmerizing debut!

—— Sarah Penner

The Secret of Hartwood Hall is exactly the book you want on a cold, stormy night when the wind is sneaking in the cracks. A thoroughly impressive debut with fantastically timed surprises throughout

—— Lyndsay Faye

Deeply immersive, atmospheric, and a true love letter to gothic fiction. An impressive, standout debut, sure to leave readers on the edge of their seats

—— Courier

Incredibly rich prose in this absorbing, deeply atmospheric story of governess, Margaret Lennox. A brilliant love letter to classic Victorian fiction and a standout debut

—— Hazel Gaynor

Dark, twisty, gothic and full of surprises ... a deliciously atmospheric page-turner

—— Liz Hyder, author of THE GIFTS

A real blast...I really enjoyed this haunting, gothic tale

—— DINAH JEFFERIES, bestselling author of the SUNDAY TIMES number one bestseller THE TEA-PLANTER'S WIFE

Perhaps all I can say is that I am so grateful – for Enter Ghost’s precision, for its imagination of theatre as occupiable and reclaimable space, for the way it observes and reifies resistance with such clarity... An ambitious and remarkably accomplished work... Compelling, commanding… A page-turner of real depth as well as some remarkable lightness.

—— Skinny, *Books of the Year*

Evans is a profoundly important chronicler of our times. Her velveteen prose is utterly precise, so detailed and artful . . . A writer at the top of her game

—— Leone Ross

Superb. A deeply enriching and profound novel. Diana Evans is one of our greatest writers. We're so lucky to have her

—— Irenosen Okojie, author of Nudibranch

'A poignant and elegant unfurling of the intricacies of family life - sensitively observed and beautifully written'

—— Nicola Rollock, author of The Racial Code

An orchestral, richly textured portrait of interconnected middle-class Black lives in contemporary London . . . Witty, poignant and emotionally acute

—— The Bookseller

A state-of-the-nation masterpiece... This is rich, multi-layered novel of interconnected lives... another rich, detailed portrait of not-so-ordinary people

—— Harper's Bazaar

Beautifully conceived, A House for Alice is a luminous, big-hearted novel about the people and things that enable us to find, keep and call somewhere a home

—— Financial Times

A rich evocation of south London, a poignant account of a dwindling marriage and a lovely celebration of music

—— Guardian

An impressive sequel to 2018's Ordinary People

—— Financial Times, *Summer Reads of 2023*

[A] tender yet political tale

—— Guardian, *Summer Reads of 2023*

Lyrical and excoriating

—— Guardian, *Books of the Year*

Each of the muses had an extraordinary story to tell... I was utterly absorbed from beginning to end.

—— Annie Kirby, author of The Hollow Sea

Smart, sophisticated and fun

—— OPRAH DAILY

Delightful. The woman narrating ROMANTIC COMEDY is hyper-aware of the conventions of romantic comedy, and she knows full well that real life is no fairytale. But could it be this time?

—— WASHINGTON POST

Sittenfeld's latest takes a shot of SNL and makes sparks fly

—— ELLE

Hilarious, heartwarming

—— HARPER'S BAZAAR

If you're looking for a romance with edge, this book is for you. The writing is as intelligent and funny as you'd expect from the author of classics such as American Wife and it's a properly swoonsome love story

—— GOOD HOUSEKEEPING

Cancel plans and dive into bestselling author Sittenfeld's hilarious take on the classic will-they-won't-they storyline

—— ELLE

Written by one of the very best out there, Romantic Comedy is a novel that you won't want to put down and one you'll want to recommend to everyone you know

—— GLAMOUR

An enthralling, humorous and subversive tale set in the world of a live TV comedy show

—— STYLIST

Whip-smart, funny and a fascinating look behind the scenes of a sketch show. Curtis Sittenfeld has penned another exquisitely written novel

—— WOMAN'S WEEKLY

A piercing look at the genre of Romcom set against the backdrop of a Saturday Night Live-esque TV show - a rollercoaster of modern love and dating

—— STYLIST

I ate it up whole. Joyful

—— EVA WISEMAN, OBSERVER

Get lost in a modern romantic fantasy

—— DAILY RECORD

A humorous take on Hollywood romcoms

—— BBC BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR

Sexy, funny, thought-provoking and everything I hoped it would be. Her best novel since American Wife.

—— RED, Best Books of the Year

Romantic Comedy combines humour with poignancy and a lot of heart.

—— GOOD HOUSEKEEPING, Best romance books to read

Sittenfeld's novel continues her wider project of exploring the possibility for a kind of redemptive idealism within our flawed world

—— GUARDIAN

Sittenfeld has penned another exquisitely written novel

—— WOMAN MAGAZINE

A fizzy love letter to the prototypical romcom

—— NEW YORK TIMES, Editor's Choice

So much of Sittenfeld's work exists in the dissection and comprehension of female desire

—— NEW YORK TIMES

Flirting with the tropes of its namesake genre, this playful novel follows Sally, a writer on an "S.N.L."-like show called "Night Owls," who falls in love with one of its guest hosts. Their relationship develops via e-mail in the post-grocery-wiping, pre-vaccine days of covid-19. When Sally decides to visit her beloved in L.A., their time together in his Topanga mansion requires her to navigate incredulity, insecurity, and an offer that she feels is an "affront to my independence." The novel is preoccupied with the instinctual nature of self-sabotage, and with the fulfillment that can come from defying ingrained impulses

—— NEW YORKER

Insightful romcom sparkles with real wit and wisdom

—— SUNDAY INDEPENDENT

Whip smart and really funny

—— BUSINESS POST

Scores big on giving readers an insight into the machinations of a TV writers-room

—— CRACK

Full of dazzling banter and sizzling chemistry

—— PEOPLE MAGAZINE

If you ever wanted a backstage pass to Saturday Night Live, this book is for you

—— GOOD MORNING AMERICA

Excellent

—— MAIL ON SUNDAY

Both a brilliant portrait of the comedy world and a witty grown-up love story. Lives up to its name

—— IRISH TIMES
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